No this isn’t a post about undergarments, although they are very important and any good outfit won’t look right if your undergarments are lacking…
This post is to cause you to think about those who you choose to keep around you, those that you let speak into your life, those that support you in life’s journey.
A few weeks ago I had the best convo with my closest girl friend from undergrad. We hadn’t been able to catch up in a while, but we made up for it last week with a 2+ hour phone conversation.
The best thing is that when I am done talking to her I feel good! And after that particular conversation, I felt invincible. I got to share my fears, my struggles, ideas, and hopes, all while problem solving my way to feeling inspired.
Too many times we value quantity over quality in friendships. We just hang out with anyone, and then wonder why when we leave the presence of some people we feel dejected and insecure. But we continue to interact with those people because we think we should, we are being mean if we don’t, or that something wrong with us–that we are too picky.
The reality is you must be very careful of who you let feed your mind and who you let speak into your life. Your life literally depends on it!
Now this is not to say only hang with yes people, or people that say what you want to hear, but real friends give you the truth in love and you can feel the difference.
I hope this was able to help someone:)